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Enlightening Cinema

Enlightening Cinema

By Jed McKenna

“Let me tell you why you’re here. You’re here because you know something. What you know, you can’t explain. But you feel it. You felt it your entire life. That there’s something wrong with the world. You don’t know what it is, but it’s there. Like a splinter in your mind driving you mad.” -Morpheus, The Matrix

This isn’t a movie review list and it’s not comprehensive. It’s just some notes about a few movies I think are useful for the purposes of awakening and why, or that aren’t and why not. With tools of understanding, bad is often better than good.

Major themes represented on this list seem to be these:

- Heresy
- Captive/Captor
- Teacher/Student
- Nature of self/man.
- Death/rebirth. Cataclysm/epiphany.
- Untrustworthiness of mind/memories.

The only thing I might advise with regard to movies and books is to raise the material up to the level where it becomes of value to you. Orwell might have been writing an anti-communist manifesto, but Nineteen Eighty-Four is much more interesting viewed as the struggle between man and his confinement. Apocalypse Now is about something more than Viet Nam, How to Get Ahead In Advertising is about something more than rampant commercialism, etc.

::: American Beauty

“I feel like I’ve been in a coma for the past
twenty years. And I’m just now waking up.”

I’ve included American Beauty mainly for what’s wrong with it. Lester’s major death/rebirth transition shows promise, but what does he transition to? Backward to teenage crap, not forward in any sense. A fear-based regression. Stupid car, stupid drugs, stupid vanity, stupid skirt chasing. Not at all redeemed when Lester sees his own folly near the end or by sappy/smarmy dead guy voice-over.

The movie is slightly redeemed by the presence of the quasi-mystical neighbor kid and his video footage of a windblown bag:

“That’s the day I realized that there was this entire life behind things, and this incredibly benevolent force that wanted me to know there was no reason to be afraid, ever.”

::: Apocalypse Now

“In a war there are many moments for compassion and tender action. There are many moments for ruthless action what is often called ruthless what may in many circumstances be only clarity, seeing clearly what there is to be done and doing it, directly, quickly, awake, looking at it.”

You’d think that Apocalypse Now Redux, the director’s cut, would be the version to watch, but all the stuff that was rightly cut from the original has been wrongly replaced. (Raising the interesting point that directors and authors often don’t understand the higher applications of the stories they’re telling.) Stick with the original over both Redux and Conrad’s Heart of Darkness.

Apocalypse Now is all about the Horror. A journey of discovery, into the heart of darkness, arriving at this horror. What’s the horror? How do you get there? Why would anyone make such a journey? Should you make such a journey? Why or why not?

Note the powerful epiphanies that drive the film. The first assassin’s letter home, (“Sell the house, sell the car, sell the kids…”), Dennis Hopper’s youthful exuberance, Kurtz’s diamond bullet, Willard’s “…I wasn’t even in their army any more.”

::: Being There

“Spring, summer, autumn, winter… then spring again.”

A lovely film ruined by a foolish walking-on-water stunt tacked on to the end. Without that nonsense the viewer would be free to think, to decide, to wonder. Instead, the movie zips itself up tight with its clever little dumb-it-down twist. Hit the stop button when Chauncey is straightening the sapling, before the ruinous denouement, and it’s a fun, lovely film.

::: Blade Runner

“I’ve seen things you people wouldn’t believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I’ve watched c-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser Gate. All those moments will be lost in time like tears in rain. Time to die.”

Were you born five minutes ago? Of course not, and you have the memories to prove it. You’d know if they were artificial implants, because, uh…

::: Cast Away

“I couldn’t even kill myself the way I
wanted to. I had power over nothing.”

If a man screams on a deserted island and there’s no one to hear him, does he make a sound? Is it enough that he hears it himself? What if not? What’s left when you take away everything?

Self stripped bare.

This movie raises many intriguing questions about the substance of self, or lack thereof, and includes a very Zen eulogy.

::: Dead Poets Society

Heresy.

::: Harold and Maude

“Vice, virtue. It’s best not to be
too moral… Aim above morality.”

American Zen, master and disciple.

::: Harvey

“For years I was smart… I recommend pleasant.”

Elwood P. Dowd, wisefool. A sweet depiction of a higher order of being misinterpreted as a lower order of being. Would we know the Superior Man when we saw him?

::: How to Get Ahead In Advertising

“Everything I do now makes perfect sense.”

A thwarted bid for freedom. A failed attempt to overthrow Maya. Enjoy the insanity of the epiphany.

::: Joe vs the Volcano

“Nobody knows anything, Joe. We’ll take this leap, and
we’ll see. We’ll jump, and we’ll see. That’s life, right?”

Death and Rebirth. Unlike American Beauty, this is all about moving forward, “away from the things of man.”

::: Man Facing Southeast (Hombre Mirando Al Sudeste)

Watch especially for the visual poem of a man crumbling a human brain into a sink while looking for the soul.

::: The Matrix

“Like everyone else, you were born into bondage, born inside a prison that you cannot smell, taste, or touch. A prison for your mind.”

Plato’s Cave for the people. As allegorically lucid as Joe vs Vocano, Pleasantville and Star Wars.

::: Monty Python’s Life of Brian

“No, no! It is a sign that, like Him, we must think not
of the things of the body, but of the face and head!”

Sacred Cow-tipping at its best.

“Meaning of Life” also belongs on this list.

::: Nineteen Eighty-Four

“If you want a vision of the future, Winston,
imagine a boot stamping on a human face forever.”

This movie is unique in the sense that it’s as good as the book, which is an extremely intimate portrait of the captor/captive, Maya/man relationship. Compare this to Moby-Dick or One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest which are superb books but useless movies.

::: One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

As with Moby-Dick, Hollywood castrated the book. They stripped it of its archetypal dimensions and reduced it to a meaningless pissing match between McMurphy and Nurse Ratched. Great entertainment, but for meaningful insight, read the book.

::: Pleasantville

“There are some places where the road doesn’t go in a circle. There are some places where it keeps on going.”

A cheerful tale of heresy in which no one is burned at the stake and the new paradigm is, eventually, embraced by all.

::: The Razor’s Edge

“The dead look so terribly dead.”

The razor’s edge is what makes it interesting; seeing Larry shakily balanced on the fine line between what he was and what he’s becoming. He is walking the edge between two lives. The Bill Murray version is a bit unfocused… stick with Tyrone Power or read the book.

Maugham supposedly used Ramana Maharshi as the model for the novel’s holy man.

::: Star Wars

“The force will be with you, always.”

The first one, where Luke makes the transition from flesh to spirit.

The Hero’s Journey.

::: The Thin Red Line

“Maybe all men got one big soul everybody’s
a part of, all faces are the same man.”

A sublime inquiry into the spiritual nature of man. More a sad/sweet song than a narrative film.

::: The Thirteenth Floor

“So what’re you saying? You’re saying
that there’s another world on top of this one?”

Layer after layer. Turtles on top of turtles.

::: Vanilla Sky/Abre Los Ojos

“Open your eyes.”

If you like Vanilla Sky, check out the original, the Spanish film Abre Los Ojos (Open Your Eyes). These two films may be the best of the bunch for our purposes; the closest to an enlightenment allegory.

Of course, the interesting thing about enlightenment is getting there, not being there, and that’s what these films are about; awakening from a false reality, opening your eyes. They’re not so much about what’s real as what’s not.

It’s the story of the journey one takes to get to the place where anything, even jumping off a tall building, would be better than continuing to live a lie, even a beautiful, blissful lie.

Note the presence of the true guru, explaining in clear terms why leaping off the building is the best thing to do, and waiting patiently for it to be done.

::: Waking Life

“They say that dreams are only real as long as
they last. Couldn’t you say the same thing about life?”

Wide-ranging philosophical inquiry. Provocative. Amusing. Potentially disruptive.

::: Wings of Desire

“When the child was a child, it was the time of these questions: Why am I me, and why not you? Why am I here, and why not there? When did time begin and where does space end?”

A lovely, intelligent, thought-provoking film. Can the awakened being return to the dreamstate? Would he want to?

::: Others

Some other films that reward thoughtful viewing are The Wizard of Oz, About Schmidt, What Dreams May Come, Total Recall, All the Mornings Of the World (Tous les Matins du Monde), and, of course, many more.

-Jed McKenna

About the Author

Business Coaching Legacy: Reflections on What You Want to Leave Behind?

Updating my will has been on my mind for quite some time now. Life circumstances change, kids grow-up, financial situations changes. I procrastinated for a very long time about this will. Now that it is, I feel very satisfied and pleased. There is peace in that corner of my mind that nagged and nagged about it for so long. You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to realize that people, myself included, avoid making out wills because they don’t want to confront their own mortality or have to face up to making difficult decisions.

One of the things I learned from the process of making a will is that a will is an expression of love for the living. After all, the loss of you will be difficult enough for your loved ones to bear. Why add to their angst with legal problems, emotional confrontations with family members and possible financial losses.

The living, that is, those left behind, will make of a will what they will. Make no mistake, the will, is taken seriously by those left behind. Understand there will be no opportunity to explain what you really intended by leaving some treasured object to cousin Jo or why you named Sally your executor instead of your older son Bob. The child who is convinced that you love the others more than him will be looking for something in the will that proves him right and may very well find it in spite of how careful you are not to have anything in the will that might be misconstrued in that direction. So, it is a good idea to use the simplest language and clearest grammatical structure as possible.

The Last Will and Testament is exactly that. You don’t get a second chance. After I dealt with distribution of the tangibles – financial assets, money and physical objects accumulated and treasured for so much of a lifetime you confront the most important part of your legacy. .

Making a will is a poignant reminder that the physical stuff, including the money, doesn’t really amount to very much when all is said and done. Perhaps the appropriate background music for will making is the song “Is That All There Is?” My answer to that musical conundrum is a resounding, “No.” That isn’t all there is. The tangible things we leave behind have little to do with the real legacy we leave. The real legacy is the one we fashion each day of our lives by the way we live and who we are being.

How do you want to be remembered? Are you living your life in a way that is consistent with the legacy you really want to leave. Do you even know the nature of the legacy you want to leave or are you like Alfred Nobel who was fortunate enough to read his obituary printed prematurely in the daily newspaper? Much to his chagrin the obituary described the fame and fortune he accumulated from his invention of dynamite. Nobel decided then and there that dynamite and its awful potential for destruction was not the achievement for which he wanted to be remembered. And, so he established the prestigious Nobel Prizes. Today, when the name Nobel comes up the first association is with the prizes. Relatively few know he is the inventor of dynamite.

Few of us have the wherewithal to create a legacy of the magnitude of the Nobel Prizes. But all of us can recreate the opportunity Alfred Nobel had in looking at his legacy and then taking steps to change it if it displeases us.

Most of us never stop to think of the legacy we would like to leave. How do you find out what legacy you would like to leave? Here are two exercises that will help you clarify your thoughts on the subject. The first is to write your own eulogy. Warning! This can be an emotional exercise, so keep the box of tissues close at hand. Make sure you are alone and in an environment where you will not be disturbed. Before you start, take a few deep breaths, close your eyes and visualize your funeral. Be objective. If you were to die tomorrow, what would be said about you? Look it over. If the eulogy you write does not please you, write down what you do want to be said about you. Look this eulogy over and decide what actions you would need to take now in order to create the legacy you really want to leave. Notice that the legacy you want to leave has little to do with your business or job. It is about the kind of person you were, who you were being when you were at work, with your family, or handling a difficult situation.

The second exercise is to imagine that you had everything you needed. Write down the words to complete the sentence “If I had__________ I would________________.” What changes would you have to make in your life to live a life consistent with your dreams? This is your real legacy. What is your stand? How do you live your life?

Here are some immediate actions you may want to consider taking, with regard to your legacy.

1) If you don’t have a will, call a lawyer and make an appointment today.

2) If you have a will, review it. Is it up-to-date in terms of your circumstances today? Does the language in the will say anything that could be construed as hurtful or damaging by anyone? Are you giving from a generous heart or are you attempting to control the living from the grave?

3) Ask your accountant if its time to do estate planning.

5) Now, today start creating your true legacy.

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About the Author

Ruth Zanes has been a Business, Career and Personal Success Coach since 1985. Her broad range of experience prior to coaching includes consultant, business ownership and corporate executive for some of the world s largest corporations. Contact Ruth at: http://www.unlimitedresourcesinc.com

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